People who area frequently fearful, yet able to control if somewhat, go through life procrastinating to avoid making wrong choices and actions. They may get mad at themselves or be sad for not being different. A potent new person or individual is needed to protect the scared person, who might need to uncover the original sources of fear!

Every individual wants to feel happy! Oftener and for longer periods of time. Happiness has levels of intensity, just as the other basic feelings do. Satisfaction, contentment, and pleasure are one level. Delight, elation, bliss, and ecstasy are at higher levels of intensity.

One of the characteristics of intense happiness is that it does not last. It either becomes less intense or as negatively transformed. The transformation can be due to changes in the external situation, such as waking up happy then going to work and being fired. On the other hand, changes may be due to internal dynamics, such as being ill or even feeling guilty for being happy. It is the job of every individual to clear away the negative attitudes that prevent from having more and more happiness in our lives.

If lovingly cared for, children will respond with love. The responsive smiles and wiggles of infants show that humans are equipped at birth for healthy relationships and intimacy. Frequent touching, rocking, carrying, and holding all stimulate an infant’s well-being. Without sufficient touching, infants become sick, even die. For maximum mental and physical health, healthy loving touch is an absolute necessity. This is just as true when you become an adult. As you begin to know the needs and wants of your inner child, you may discover fear of some kinds of touch and longing for others.